James 3:1-12. The discipline of silence applies not only to our relationship with God but also to our interaction with others. Paul asserted that the love of money was the root of all evil, but James was convinced that the tongue is every bit as lethal. When we about the damage caused by careless words, sarcasm, hurtful comments, and bitter arguments, we will heartily agree with James. Bones heal but wounded spirits can feel the pain for years.

Paul exhorted his readers, "Don't use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them" (Ephesians 4:29). In the light of this command and in the light of the immense power of words, both for good or ill, we ought to guard our tongues carefully.

From the silence of not answering back when baited into an argument, to not spreading gossip, to foregoing a sarcastic remark that would have gotten a laugh at someone else's expense, we can practice the discipline of silence in our relationships and conversations. This discipline is not intended to stop all conversation but, rather, to help us fulfil Paul's exhortation to encourage each other with our words.

Putting It into practice
Reflect for a moment upon your most recent conversations. Was your tongue under the spirit's control? How might silence have been an asset? Even a few moment of silence can prevent us from saying something we might regret later. Use your next conversation as an opportunity to practice the discipline of silence through verbal self-control.

For more on silence, read Job 42.